God, Are You Ghosting Me?

☁️ The First Fluff

Ghosting. The 21st century’s finest relational invention—right up there with soft-launching and liking someone's 2016 photo at 2AM.

But what happens when the one ghosting you… feels like God?

Prayers Sent. Seen? Unknown.

You pour your heart out in prayer. You ask. You wait.

And... nothing.

No burning bush. No peace. No sign.

Just silence.
And it starts to feel like you’ve been left on read by heaven.

When Silence Feels Like Rejection

Being ignored hurts. And when it’s God? It spirals quick:

“Did I do something wrong?”
“Am I not praying enough?”
“Is He mad at me?”
“Am I being punished?”

That silence touches deep insecurities. And suddenly, you’re not just questioning the outcome—you’re questioning your worth.

But here’s the truth:

Silence isn’t absence.
Delay isn’t rejection.
And God ghosting you? That’s not a thing.

Maybe You’re Asking for Calculus While Still in 3rd Grade

I once heard it said: “God hasn’t spoken because you’re not ready to hear the answer.”

“I have much more to say to you, more than you can now bear.” — John 16:12

Sometimes silence is protection.
Sometimes silence is space to grow.
Sometimes, the answer would derail you—so He waits.

When Heaven Is Quiet, Be Like David

David didn’t pretend everything was fine. He literally screamed:

“My God, why have You forsaken me?”

But then?

He remembered what God had already done.

“They trusted and You delivered them.” — Psalm 22:3–5

When you hear nothing:
Reflect on past faithfulness.
Rest in what He’s already done.

You’re Not Ghosted—You’re Empowered

We wait for God to micromanage every decision. But sometimes, silence is an invitation to co-create.

“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’”

— Isaiah 30:21

That voice doesn’t always shout.
Sometimes it whispers.
Sometimes it just waits.

But it never disappears.

☁️ The Final Fluff

God’s silence isn’t petty. It isn’t punishment.
It’s space to grow, to trust, and to become who you need to be for what’s next.
Even in the quiet—you are seen. You are heard. You are loved.